Congratulations on your pregnancy. I am sorry to hear your c-section was so traumatic. I do hope that you are able to find a physician that will do a VBAC.
You can try the The International Cesarean Awareness Network (ICAN) of Florida yahoo group,
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/ICANofFlorida/, they may have updated info on doctors offering VBACS.
At one time the The Woman's Group in Tampa , The USF Physicians Group at Tampa General ,and Women's Health Care located at Tampa General offered VBACs. I do not know if their policies have changed.