Talking with Your Child's Teacher – 5 Tips for Success
Shannon Kalisher
Your child will have numerous teachers over the course of his/her school
career. Effective communication between parents and teachers helps facilitate
success for a child. Below are five useful tips in establishing a valuable
relationship with your child’s teacher.
1. Introduce yourself to your child’s teacher within the first month of
school. Introducing yourself to the teacher will help establish a positive
rapport. It also affirms for your child that you are interested in staying abreast
of his/her time spent at school. It is preferable to do this introduction face to
face, perhaps at “back to school night” or during an open house, but you can
also do so in an email, phone call or written note.
2. Keep in contact with the teacher throughout the school year. It
is common mistake to wait until parent-teacher conferences to discuss any
questions and/or concerns. Since most schools only have these conferences
twice per year, many parents are not privy to their child’s specific achievements
and/or needs within the classroom. Occasional notes, emails or phone
messages are powerful tools in monitoring your child’s progress and do not
require much time for parents or teachers. This continual dialogue not only
informs you and the teacher but your child will benefit greatly from this
partnership.
3. Always make an appointment to speak with your child’s teacher
about important issues. Before and after school are very busy times for
teachers. Trying to “catch” the teacher during these times will not result in a
thoughtful, informative discussion regarding your concerns. Scheduling a 10-
minute conference either over the phone or in person will allow the teacher to
prepare and give your questions his/her full attention.
4. Come prepared to the meeting. Write down any questions or
concerns you may have as they come up. This will ensure nothing is forgotten
and lets the teacher know that you take the meeting seriously. Come prepared
with any ideas that may help facilitate the discussion such as important tidbits
about your child (interests, strengths, areas of need, what s/he responds to,
etc.), information from previous teachers, and relevant details about your
home-life.
5. Work together to find solutions. Be careful not to rely on the
teacher to come up with the entire plan of action. A good teacher wants to
work collaboratively with parents. If you are unhappy with the results of a
conversation or meeting do not hesitate to give your feelings a voice, first to
the teacher and, if necessary, the school Principal.
When parents and teachers work together, they provide the child with the
strong foundation necessary for academic and social success. You may not
“love” every teacher your child has during his/her student career, however, if
you keep the above points in mind, you will be able to communicate effectively
and advocate for your child when necessary. For more educational information
and ideas please visit Child-Works
Shannon Kalisher is a literacy specialist and consultant for Child-Works, LLC. Child-Works, "the ultimate parent toolbox", provides consultation in the areas of education, sleep and behavior. Check out http://www.child-works.com for literacy activity kits, tutoring services, and small group reading/writing workshops.
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